Holes — Dirty Loves

We spend so much of our lives trying to fill the gaps. We fill them with noise, with distraction, with the pristine and the perfect. We are taught that love should be a clean thing—a white dress, a polished surface, a story without blemish. But that is the love of the head, the love of the gallery.

While 'dirty love holes' play a crucial role in maintaining the ecosystem balance, neglecting them can have severe consequences. Without proper maintenance and management, these holes can lead to: dirty loves holes

There is a specific kind of surrender in getting messy. When we stop trying to be statues and allow ourselves to be flesh, we accept that we are porous. We are full of holes—wounds from the past, aching vacancies, the hollow of the throat, the pit of the stomach. We walk through the world feeling like Swiss cheese, vulnerable to the wind. We spend so much of our lives trying to fill the gaps

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