| | The "Bitch" (High Value Woman) | | --- | --- | | Cancels plans to wait for his call | Keeps her schedule; returns calls when convenient | | Cooks, cleans, and over-functions for him | Acts as a companion , not a mother | | Asks: "Where is this going?" (needy) | Shows him with actions, not words | | Accepts last-minute dates | Requires 2–3 days' notice | | Tolerates disrespect to "keep the peace" | Calls out bad behavior immediately | | Thinks: "If I give more, he'll love me" | Thinks: "If he values me, he'll step up" |
: Maintaining financial independence is a major theme. It signals that you are with him because you want to be, not because you need to be. why-men-love-bitches-2
New Maya put down her fork. "I’ve got a mountain of work tonight, Julian. If you want snacks for the guys, you’ll need to swing by the store yourself." Julian looked up, surprised. "It’s just a quick stop." | | The "Bitch" (High Value Woman) |
: Instead of nagging about the bad, the "Bitch" ignores the negative and enthusiastically rewards the positive. This utilizes basic psychological conditioning. "I’ve got a mountain of work tonight, Julian