Both the husband and wife should have an open line of communication with the friend. If a certain area isn't being cleaned to your standards, address it immediately and kindly. Ignoring small issues leads to long-term resentment.
She has seen safes left open, bank statements on counters, and secrets in laundry baskets. She never speaks of them. Ever. housekeeper - my wife's friend
That was my mistake.
I used to think I knew what a housekeeper did. Then I met Sarah. Both the husband and wife should have an
A recovering snob who now cleans his own bathroom once a week—badly—and has deep respect for those who do it right. bank statements on counters